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Dear You

Movie 2026 118 min M Drama, Family, Comedy
AMU 13+ * Quality ★★★★☆

Our take

This PG-13 Teochew-language family drama follows a grandson uncovering decades of love letters and sacrifice across China and Thailand. The rating cites strong violence, language, smoking, and sexual references. Best for teens interested in diaspora stories; discuss portrayal of South Asian characters.

Uplifting themes

Despite flaws, critics praise themes of integrity, loyalty, and the qiaopi letter tradition. People's Daily and diaspora audiences celebrated its emotional sincerity Xie Nanzhi's decades-long sacrifice sending letters and money in Musheng's name models extraordinary loyalty. Lead performer Li Sitong is widely praised for restrained work The film introduces the qiaopi remittance-letter system and Teochew diaspora history across China, Thailand, and Southeast Asia. Strong cultural specificity for Chinese-speaking families

Story (may spoil tone)

Xiaowei travels to Thailand to find his "billionaire grandfather" who is out of contact due to debt problems, but unexpectedly find the one who has been corresponding with his grandmother for years is not her husband.

Violence
Moderate
Language
Mild
Sex / nudity
Mild
Drugs / alcohol
Mild
Frightening
Mild
Self-harm / suicide
Sexual violence
Child peril / abuse
Mild
Bullying / discrimination
Moderate
Gore / death / weapons
Mild
Dangerous behaviour
Mild
Eating disorders / body image
Mental health
Mild
Gambling
Grief / bereavement
Strong

Details

Violence Moderate Some strong violence is cited in the PG-13 rating. Reviews describe a S…

Some strong violence is cited in the PG-13 rating. Reviews describe a South Asian gang's attempted extortion culminating in a hostel fire that nearly kills dozens, plus Musheng's violent retaliation against an arsonist that lands him in prison

Language Mild Language is listed in the PG-13 descriptor. The film is primarily in Te…

Language is listed in the PG-13 descriptor. The film is primarily in Teochew with cultural-specific dialogue

Sex / nudity Mild Sexual references are cited in the PG-13 rating. The story centers on q…

Sexual references are cited in the PG-13 rating. The story centers on qiaopi love letters and a decades-long secret devotion rather than explicit scenes

Drugs / alcohol Mild Smoking is explicitly listed in the PG-13 rating. Period setting in mid…

Smoking is explicitly listed in the PG-13 rating. Period setting in mid-century China and Thailand may include social tobacco use

Frightening Mild The hostel fire sequence is a pivotal frightening moment that alters ev…

The hostel fire sequence is a pivotal frightening moment that alters every major relationship. Dementia-related late-story turns may also unsettle viewers

Self-harm / suicide No self-harm found in this title

No self-harm found in this title

Sexual violence No sexual violence found in this title

No sexual violence found in this title

Child peril / abuse Mild The hostel fire puts many residents, potentially including families, in…

The hostel fire puts many residents, potentially including families, in mortal danger. Wartime separation of families is part of the historical backstory

Bullying / discrimination Moderate Multiple critics flag the film's flat, stereotypical portrayal of South…

Multiple critics flag the film's flat, stereotypical portrayal of South Asian migrants as greedy violent villains. Goggler and diaspora reviewers call this historically inaccurate and racially troubling

Gore / death / weapons Mild Musheng dies overseas in 1960; violence includes retaliatory assault an…

Musheng dies overseas in 1960; violence includes retaliatory assault and arson aftermath. No graphic gore is documented

Dangerous behaviour Mild Musheng's violent retaliation against arsonists leads to prison and fin…

Musheng's violent retaliation against arsonists leads to prison and financial ruin. The film frames this as sacrifice rather than endorsement

Eating disorders / body image No eating found in this title

No eating found in this title

Mental health Mild Critics note a late-story dementia turn used to intensify tears. This m…

Critics note a late-story dementia turn used to intensify tears. This may feel emotionally manipulative to some viewers

Gambling No gambling found in this title

No gambling found in this title

Grief / bereavement Strong The qiaopi letter system carries love, money, and grief across decades…

The qiaopi letter system carries love, money, and grief across decades after Musheng's death. Two women maintain a secret correspondence spanning nearly twenty years